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By Sam Zanahar (2001)
In our indefinitely short lives, I can see only one occupation, which is worthwhile to be pursued: optimal sexual joy. Every other endeavor really is but a ridiculous waste of time.
I hold that this philosophical position is valid for everybody, and for women as it is for men. Sexual satisfaction is the only purpose in life that makes biological sense.
I am aware of the dilemma this assertion poses for two groups of people:
1. those who have sexual desires that are unacceptable to the society a person lives in.
2. women in traditional societies, especially in Asia.
For the first group, people with sexual preferences that are not acceptable in societies where they live, the question arises whether they should pursue optimal sexual joy, even if it means to break the law?
Pondering this question, I feel fortunate that I am free of criminal inclinations as related to sexual conduct. I do not rape women. I prefer woman with own strong sexual desires, and I do not seek situations in which a woman would feel overpowered.
Of course, a sexual relationship outside wedlock, which is fully acceptable to me, would be considered criminal conduct in much of the Muslim world; but I avoid strictly Islamic countries.
Would I change my sexual inclinations if they were outlawed?
I am committed not to break any law, as I do not intend to waste my life in a prison. The preference therefore is to settle at a location where my sexual conduct is not in conflict with the law.
On the other hand, my sexual desires, and their optimal satisfaction is the only thing that is absolute in my life, and thus, they are not negotiable.
Ethics, after all, are arbitrary, and values are as variable as fashions. The solution is not to break the law, but to go somewhere, where the legal climate is milder.
What do I recommend for women who live in societies where women are not supposed to have strong sexual desires, and certainly could not openly adhere to a philosophy that considers optimal sexual satisfaction the essence of being alive?
Well, you don't have to out yourself as a person adhering to our philosophy. After all, the idea is to pursue an optimal experience of love and sex, and not to change the society you live in. Thus, secrecy is perfectly alright.
A sensible long-term strategy for any woman in traditional societies is to migrate to Europe where not only her chances of optimal experience of love and sex are better than in morally restricted Asian societies (because European men are much more likely to be good lovers), but where also she will preserve her sexual market value for much longer.
And in the short term, there is the Internet which allows girls and women to build relationships with men even when parents strongly restrict their freedom to move around.
Furthermore, the Internet allows girls and women to develop relationships outside their neighborhoods where even just talking to men, especially to Western men, could not just mean a loss of face but even uncomfortable reprisals.
On the Internet, women of the most restricted societies could take relationships to a stage where the next step would definitely by physical, and just a few hours of being unobserved would be enough of a window for some form of sexual contact, even though it may not be full intercourse.
For one thing is certain: for women, just as for men, the greatest moments in life are those of immense sexual excitement. (le*n)
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